亲密关系
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课程名称
亲密关系
简介:
通过对社会心理学理论的讲解与实践分析,理解亲密关系运行的内在原理。建立对于人的社会性、道德与欲望的思考方式,以及具备哲学根基的价值判断体系。

教书匠

白云/美学门掌门人

授课语言 80%汉语,20%英语
课程量 共6周 2课时/周
课程内容 6次课程直播 | 课后阅读作业
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学习目标

1. 通过对社会心理学理论的讲解与实践分析,理解亲密关系运行的内在原理。

2. 建立对于人的社会性、道德与欲望的思考方式,以及具备哲学根基的价值判断体系。

课程资料
必读/选读

Rowland S. Miller: Intimate Relationship, 6th ed., 2012 New York.

Helm, Bennett, "Love", 2013

Helm, Bennett, "Friendship", 2013

Brake, Elizabeth, "Marriage and Domestic Partnership",2016

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共6课
课时列表
第1课/吸引力与社会认知:

内容纲要

Part 1: Attraction

  • Proximity
  • Physical and mental attractiveness
  • Barriers
  • Reciprocity and Similarity


Part 2: Social Cognition

  • First impression and Impression management
  • How well do we know our partners?


参考阅读

Rowland S. Miller: “Intimate Relationship” (6th ed.), 1-36; 70-138


第2课/沟通的艺术:

内容纲要

Part 1: Nonverbal Communication

  • Components
  • Nonverbal Sensitivity


Part 2: Verbal Communication

  • Self-Disclosure
  • Gender Differences in Verbal Communication


Part 3: Dysfunctional Communication

  • Miscommunication
  • Saying what we mean
  • Active Listening


个人观点与总结:伶牙俐齿是个性,万种风情塑秉性。

 

参考阅读

Rowland S. Miller: “Intimate Relationship” (6th ed.), 141-173


第3课/彼此的需要:

内容纲要:

Part 1: Social Exchange

  • Rewards and Costs
  • Expectation
  • CL and CLalt


 Part 2: We Are Greed

  • Economies of relationships
  • Exchange versus Communal Relationships
  • Equitable Relationships
  • Commitment


个人观点与总结:自控——让不可控成为可控


参考阅读

Rowland S. Miller: “Intimate Relationship” (6th ed.), 175-211


第4课/爱情与友情:

内容纲要:

Part 1: Friendship Versus Love

  • Nature of Friendship
  • Nature of Love
  • Boundary?


Part 2: When We Talk About Love

  • Individual and cultural difference in love
  • Does love last?

 

个人观点与总结:爱是一杯鸡尾酒,比例要对量要足。

 

参考阅读

Rowland S. Miller: “Intimate Relationship” (6th ed.), 212-271


第5课/面对压力:

内容纲要:

Part 1: Perceived Relational Value

  • Degrees of perceived relational value
  • Hurt feelings and ostracism


Part 2: Jealousy

  • Two types of Jealousy
  • Who’s prone to jealous?
  • Response and Coping Constructively with jealousy


 Part 3: Deception & Betrayal

  • Lying in Close and Casual relationships
  • When we talk about betrayal
  • Forgiveness


 个人观点与总结:

  • Intrinsic value or instrumental value?
  • Interested pleasure or disinterested pleasure?

 

参考阅读

Rowland S. Miller: “Intimate Relationship” (6th ed.), 1-36; 70-138


第6课/冲突与修复:

内容纲要:

Part 1: Conflict

  • The nature of conflict
  • The course of conflict
  • The outcomes of conflict
  • Violence


 Part 2: The Dissolution and Loss of Relationship

  • The predictors of divorce
  • The aftermath of breakups
  • Post-traumatic growth


Part 3: Maintaining and Repairing Relationships

  • Lying in Close and Casual relationships
  • When we talk about betrayal
  • Forgiveness


个人观点与总结:

  1. 创伤后成长:你比想象中更强大
  2. 挽回前任:为何挽回比如何挽回更重要


参考阅读

Rowland S. Miller: “Intimate Relationship” (6th ed.), 337-361; 391-443


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课程时间

2017年05月28日– 2017年07月02日-每星期六09:30-11:30